What is it about what I say that puts you off so completely?
Or is it the way I say it? Or is it just me that makes you want to shut me up?
Last night I tried talking to him about what most couples usually talk about after they've been married so long - kids. He said he didn't want to talk about it. So what's weird, you ask, he just might not want to talk about it. Well, we used to talk a lot about having children when we were dating. But there has been an uneasy silence on the topic since we got married. I sensed he did not want to talk about kids yet. So I didn't, all these years... But it was after great deliberation that I broke the silence, because someone had to. And it was with great love that I broached the topic. He shut me up, snubbed me, just like that.
So I changed tracks. Became funny. Maybe that's what he'd like to see? But that put him off too... I tried being myself and that was too kiddish for him. Oh no! I was "acting" like a kid. No, I'm not cute and I'm not grwon up, I'm not emotional, I'm just stupid. So fine, I'll shut up. Now you talk.
5 comments:
So wht ya want..boy..or the girl :)?
are you able to save your marriage ? i really hope u did!!!!!
sometimes instead of looking into future concentrete on the present and see what u really have...if u want a child then make it clear and tell him why...men are like little kids not women...they need to be told things like u tell a 5 year old...hope it wrks...i got this frm my mother and i try this alwys.....
People change!
First time here(thru D). Read the posts of the previous year. And my heart aches for you. Somewhere amidst it all, I see a small part of me as well..So even though i havent read your recent posts, which I will now, I`d like to say something to you - even if it pains real bad, dont think of kids till you`ve salvaged your relationship completely. Its the only wise thing to do, my friend..
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